{"id":625,"date":"2011-10-25T21:55:09","date_gmt":"2011-10-26T03:55:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.michel2010.name\/blog\/?p=625"},"modified":"2011-10-25T21:55:09","modified_gmt":"2011-10-26T03:55:09","slug":"a-short-muse-on-love-and-some-other-stuff","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.michel2010.name\/eric\/2011\/10\/25\/a-short-muse-on-love-and-some-other-stuff\/","title":{"rendered":"A Short Muse on Love (and some other stuff)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Wow, it&#8217;s been a while.\u00a0 Quick update.\u00a0 Life here is good, though very quite without any Arrowhead students.\u00a0 We&#8217;ve been keeping very busy.\u00a0 I did get my email project working, so I&#8217;ll get that howto posted in the next couple of days.<\/p>\n<p>Moving on to the topic at hand.<br \/>\nI had a thought hit me Sunday night. I was thinking about love, and it dawned on me that to love someone does not mean to ignore, or be ok with their flaws\/sin. One of the reasons I struggle so much with love is I have this idea that if I love someone I&#8217;m ok with them, with what they do. I realized this is simply not true. In love, someones faults can and should be recognized. It&#8217;s not my job to do anything about those faults, but it is silly to pretend that they don&#8217;t exist. It seems so basic, but for some reason had never really sunk in before. I was getting so frustrated because peoples flaws annoyed me, and I thought to love them I couldn&#8217;t be annoyed with them. I finally understand annoyance and love are not mutually exclusive. If only I could be less comfortable with my sin and more annoyed by it.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong.\u00a0 I&#8217;m not saying it&#8217;s ok to sit around and chew people out (either in your head, or to their face).\u00a0 I am saying, you can love some one with out accepting them or more specifically without accepting their sin (or what you think is their sin).\u00a0 Maybe that doesn&#8217;t make sense.<\/p>\n<p>Any ways that is something of what has being going on in my head the past couple of days.\u00a0 As I reread this I realize this is not a fully formed image of what love is (I Corinthians 13 lays that out) nor is it supposed to be.\u00a0 As with everything I write, if there is truth in it keep that, and chuck the rest.<\/p>\n<p>John 12:25-26 <em>He that loveth his life shall lose it; and he that hateth his life in this world shall keep it unto life eternal. If any man server me, let him follow me; and where I am, there shall also my servant be: if any man serve me, him will my Father honour.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wow, it&#8217;s been a while.\u00a0 Quick update.\u00a0 Life here is good, though very quite without any Arrowhead students.\u00a0 We&#8217;ve been keeping very busy.\u00a0 I did get my email project working, so I&#8217;ll get that howto posted in the next couple of days. Moving on to the topic at hand. I had a thought hit me &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.michel2010.name\/eric\/2011\/10\/25\/a-short-muse-on-love-and-some-other-stuff\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;A Short Muse on Love (and some other stuff)&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-625","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.michel2010.name\/eric\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/625","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.michel2010.name\/eric\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.michel2010.name\/eric\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.michel2010.name\/eric\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.michel2010.name\/eric\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=625"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.michel2010.name\/eric\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/625\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.michel2010.name\/eric\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=625"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.michel2010.name\/eric\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=625"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.michel2010.name\/eric\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=625"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}